I think it is always a surprise. Even if
you have read all about pregnancy and you feel such a big desire to become a
mum. Let’s try. That’s always the best part.
We’d been trying for few months. And desire
of both of us – me and my husband was just great. Even I found our bed life
always as it best if I would not have a clue how actually make a baby, not only
love, I would quit. Probably with loudly fight as all women sometimes do.
First I became more aware of my body. We
all are, but not always on the same level. I remember every single class from
my mum about bees, at school when they gave us samples of towels and small
calendars and even family planning classes, which we attended before we got married. But who really needs to know about
differences with your discharge, morning temperatures of your body at that
stage?
I remind myself those not when I wanted to
get pregnant but totally opposite, when we weren’t still ready for a child.
Natural conception method can fail, that is true. I have tried that and after a
year or so of checking my morning temperatures, observing everyday my discharge
and just watching all my carvings, PMS acting I had in my mind I knew myself
quite well. There is plenty of guides which you can find online. I have used
Kindara app as it is pretty easy, just on hand on my phone and you can always
check with community and experts all your concerns. It is not only of having or
not baby, but also just about of health. Who did not have big feast of yeast or
other bacterial party down there after a flu and good love making? But if you just
watch all symptoms you will know what to do.
Conceiving is not easy. Not only because
you need to choose the right day and time, but first of all you do not want sex
being overwhelming for you or your partner. It is a great fun to do this, and
that, and tomorrow, and day after and on the evening and again, but at some
stage I thought I just wanted to sit with my bottom down on couch, have a
cuddle and watch any movie without love scenes. It is like a race with nature. If
you won’t do this again you will loose whole month. And how many months you
really want to spend like that?
And then we talked a lot and we did not
feel any pressure. Understanding was the most important thing not just every
day but also every night. We still had been taking some vitamins and folic acid,
watched closer end of my cycles and even though I got my periods as usual we
always found symptoms I was pregnant. I used some ovulation strips just to find
when is the magic o-day. We ate as usual, had fun and a great sex like
always.
And then surprise. We tried both and we
made a decision both, so why we should hold on each other with any
announcement. And now we could not believe there was few or even few thousand
cells in my tiny tummy, which just have started a new life.
